Everyone seems to have instant things nowadays, but this should not be true when it comes to human relationships especially affectionate ones. It is always good to have someone true and genuine who cares for you deeply.
So, here are some of the tips that could make the relationship last longer and even more exciting as the months and years sweetly pass by.
1. Surprise your partner with little things.
It still remains true that the little things count. A bud of rose for her on just any rare occasion, or give him a handkerchief to reciprocate the favor. It is not about how expensive the item is or how huge it is, but it is the thought that counts.
2. Send random sweet text messages or call your partner when least expected.
Let your partner feel that he/she is being thought about, and just imagine the excitement on their face when you send a text message while away from each other. It could be that he/she is stressed at work, and surprisingly a text came in saying, "Oh pause that monitor and relax for a few minutes. I just want to let you know that I am badly missing you. Come home soon babe. I love you!"
3. Watch a movie on random dates.
Spend time with your partner for a movie date maybe on Friday night or the weekends. It's a good way to relax after a long work week. Also, you can laugh and discuss about the twist and plot of the movie, you will agree and argue in a healthy way.
4. Cook something irresistibly delicious.
As they say, 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach', well this has relatively the same impact with a woman. Think of a menu that your partner is craving about or maybe prepare something that your partner has not tasted yet. The tasty satisfaction of food sends a sparkling energy to their heart.
5. Relax, have a spa treat or a massage.
It is truly relaxing to spend time together while having a therapeutic spa massage. It heals the body, and keep the spark alive between the lovers. Each one will surely miss this romantic activity when away from one another.
6. Show respect.
We have to go back to the basics, we have to give respect to get it. The relationship will surely flourish when each one is considerate enough to show respect in every aspect. Who would want to be with someone who never cares about the word respect?!
7. Have intimate, regular sexual activity.
Yes, it is so true! A man and a woman need sex. It connects them, it binds them, it keeps them close to one another. Sex should not be taken for granted as it is deemed sacred to keep the relationship intimate and exciting.
8. Show affection randomly, 'action speaks louder than words'.
Kiss her. Hug him. Say loving words and bid goodbye accordingly before leaving. Give him water when he requests. Affection must be felt, it must be shown, and not merely spoken meaningless words.
As they say, 'it takes two to tango', so strive to keep the fire burning even after several anniversaries together!