Those late night intimate conversations don’t have to be hard. She wants to open up to you about her feelings, and you want to tell her what she means to you. It should be easy, right? But sometimes we don’t know where to start. Well, here are ten questions to help get things rolling in bed when it comes to your mind and soul, not just the body.
1. What would be your ideal romantic getaway?
Get her describing her dream getaway in detail: location, sights to see, accommodations, food to eat, and so on. Just remember to keep mental notes of everything, so you can save up to make her dream come true.
2. What’s something you are dying to try in bed but afraid to say?
Open it up for her to talk about her fantasies. She may be afraid that some of them seem weird or too kinky, but you can make her feel assured that you’re open-minded and ready to please.
3. What do you remember about the first kiss we shared?
This question is an opportunity to show off your romantic side and reminisce about when your relationship was brand new. Be ready to share what you remember and how she made you feel.
4. How would you describe me to someone who’s never met me?
This one is a fun question to get to share what you see as each other’s best qualities both physical and personality. Is your lover kind, generous, and smart? Does she have stunning eyes and a contagious laugh? Let her know, be specific, and make her heart melt.
5. What did you think when you first saw me?
Here’s another question to get you two recollecting about the first pulls of attraction you felt. You might find yourselves laughing when she says she thought you were a nerd, but you won her over. And it’ll bring you closer together when you tell her that you knew she was the only one the moment you saw her.
6. Do you remember the moment you knew you were in love with me?
Okay, last mushy questions, we promise. Keep in mind you don't have to ask all of them in one night. Maybe it was the time you helped her grandma out of the car. Whatever it is, she’s probably been dying to tell you, so give her a chance.
7. How do you see us in 10 years from now?
Asking about the future lets her know that you see her as more than a short-term interest or a fling. She wants to feel valued, and letting her know that you want her in your life for a long time does just that. Plus, if you are serious, it is wise to make sure you are really on the same page.
8. If I had to move away, would you come with me?
Commitment is essential in a relationship, and this question shows her that you’re ready for it. You’re asking if she’d come with you, but what you’re really saying, “I want to be with you no matter what life sends our way.” This pillow talk question also determines if you are willing to leave your friends or family for your future spouse. Do you put your trust and faith in having the best intentions for you?
9. Is there a song that makes you think of me when you hear it?
This question opens it up for you to share the everyday things that remind you of each other. Besides, your girlfriend definitely wants to know that you think of her when she’s not around. From jam you played at the bar together to the slow song at your cousin's wedding, you probably have your own playlist.
10. How was your day?
Sometimes simple is best. More than anything, your lady wants to know that you’re interested in her life and what she does all day. She wants to know that her thoughts and feelings matter to you. Whether it was a good or bad day, this is your chance to be the supportive man she desires.